Friday, July 11, 2008

friends...................

Now that i have completed one year of college....i have so many different gangs of friends.....one from middle school......two or three from high school........friends i got through mutual friends......college mates.....bus gang.....classmates.........

Now let me tell you-maintaining the same rapport with all your friends throughout your life is an extremely difficult job( which took me a few bitter experiences to understand )......so for those of you reading this....here is what i think about continuing to be great friends.......
let your different friends know that you hang out with different friends at different times.......when you grow older it is natural to come across a lot of people who will share a lot of your views......you tend to become closer to them too......but see to it you have that one phone call atleast every week......that monthly meetings....and constant messaging goes on....this way you still get to share all your experiences and get to gossip too...... ;p

Being in groups of three can also be a problem at one stage.....one of them tends to start feeling out of place......it happens however hard you try at some point of friendship.......so whenever you feel that way,push it out of your mind and engage yourself in conversations with the other two....make yourself more visible....the general tendency of people is to isolate themselves from the other two.....remember.....your friends are also trying their level best to pour their affection on the other two equally.....and they will not understand your mindset at such times....it will puzzle them......

whatever your mindset is.....remember,friends are forever.......they share your sorrows,joys,secrets and your ice creams and chocolates too,lol......

remember your friends forever.........life can never be great without a FRIEND.......

1 comment:

653 said...

ya its true but being friends is easier tat too wit me na its the easiest job dachuchu has done a very good job by penning down abt frnds tats the grtest part in life be happy always be withur frnds luv their feeling help wen they need u